One recent and heavily promoted episode involved a young, married woman:
Lauren Cleri, 26, admitted on air she had cheated on her NYPD cop husband and preferred an ex-boyfriend. But she failed a polygraph, and lost $200,000, by answering yes when asked if she believed she was a good person.
The Post, being the Post, decided this was a good reason to call upon a lying expert named Susan Shapiro Barash, author of a book, Little White Lies, Deep Dark Secrets: The Truth About Why Women Lie. According to her research, conducted on 500 women she found on Craig s List,
75 percent lie about how much money they spend. For instance, they sneak purchases inside their homes MaxiDiag JP701 Code Scanner after shopping or hide the price tags.
50 percent harbor mixed feelings about mothering. One told Barash, I look at these children and I crave sleep and free time. They wear me out and make me jealous of working women who have no children, no husbands.
More than 60 percent cheated on their husbands. A 32-year-old mother conducted her trysts while telling her trusting husband she was working late. Even in asking for a divorce, she withheld the truth: I didn t say I had fallen for another man. He was better off with my lies.
Okay. I have such a problem with each of these so-called findings. That V-Checker V601 three-fourths of us lie to our husbands about how much we shop assumes three-fourths of us are living off our hubbies income, don t you think? which simply doesn t hold up to Census figures that show 77% of adult women work.
Secondly: so half of women say they have mixed feelings about parenting. What the hell does that have to do with lying? I d venture to say all parents have mixed feelings about parenting; who can summon up cheer and joy when we re about to leave for work and the kid decides to start a paintball fight in the playroom?
As for the last, I just don t believe it. Other surveys don t support it, either. This from MSNBC.com:
About one in five adults in monogamous relationships, or 22 percent, have cheated on their current
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